Saturday, November 28, 2015

The contemporary get-togethers

When did you last hosted or attended a live BBQ? Hopefully you'll have to think about it to remember when it was the last time. I'm a big fan of gatherings where we do everything ourselves. For example in a live BBQ we do cooking from start to end. When I go hiking with friends we do not take porters with us. Even after a long walk we prepare our camp site, get the food ready, eat it, clean the place and then start playing cards or go to sleep.
Due to busy schedule I have been out of all these activities for quite some time now and I have felt a very disappointing trend in people. You try planning any activity and people will vote for a lunch/dinner at an expensive restaurant. When you reach, following is the sequence of events.
  1. After you reach most of the people don't forget to check-in to facebook
  1. Order food
  2. Take selfies
  3. Once the food arrives take pictures of food and post it to fb (without even tasting it)
  4. Finish the food and leave

This is happening too much nowadays and it has raised a couple of questions in my mind.

If we are planning a lunch or a dinner together, what is the purpose of it?
Everyone will have their lunch separately if we do not plan a get together. No? We plan a lunch together so we can spend some time together that is fun filled. An activity like cooking food together with friends give you a lot of time to have fun. If you just go to a restaurant, order food, eat food, post on fb then what is the purpose of the gathering?
Also if we start posting about it on fb that means we are ignoring the people sitting around us and talking to some other people who are somewhere else. Then what is the purpose of the get-together?

Why do we post pictures of food?
Food is not a piece of art, it has to be tasted to be praised. Deep in your heart just ask yourself, whenever you are posting food on fb are you not being pompous? Are you not trying to show-off the expensive food?

P.S: I write all of these feelings I have just to provide some food-for-thought.


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